If you are a parent, perhaps you have heard of Captain Underpants. If not, then let me enlighten you a little. Captain Underpants is a character featured in a series of books by Dav Pilkey, written for young readers from ages 5 to 12. He faces foes like “Professor Poopypants”, “Naughty Cafeteria Ladies”, and “Wicked Wedgie Woman”. My boys think the books are hilarious.

Tonight I sent Carter upstairs to take his shower. I gave him very specific instructions…Get in the shower, wash your hair and body, dry off thoroughly, put on your underwear and come back downstairs so I can put the itch cream on you.

Here is what, or should I say who, came down my stairs…

 

 

Captain Underpants in all his glory!

Captain Underpants in all his glory!

I went to the school this past Tuesday to watch Cris present his biography project. He learned about Captain Scott O’Grady and did a presentation to the class as O’Grady. He is being interviewed by another student. I wanted to post the video but I don’t have the upgrade to include it here so I am posting a couple of pictures. I had too, since he’s the greatest, smartest kid ever! I know, I am more than a little biased.

I love when Cris has projects like this because it gives me a chance to learn something I may not have known already. I get to spend some extra time with Cris and I love to see the outcome of his hard work.

Captain Scott O’Grady, if you don’t know or remember, is the F-16 fighter pilot that was shot down over Bosnia in 1995 and survived behind enemy lines for 6 days before being rescued.  A fascinating story indeed! He would move during the night only between midnight and 4 am and “sleep” during the day, covered by his camoflauge. At one point he had cows grazing at his feet while he lay perfectly still, trying to sleep. He ate bugs and plants in order to survive and drank rainwater that he collected.

Cris really enjoyed this project and I would say it broadened his horizons a little.  The kids got to ask him questions and he did a great job answering them. One kid asked him how old he is today. Cris was stumped but stayed in character and answered with “I really haven’t been keeping track of time so I don’t know how old I am.”  That answer got him a big laugh from the kids and the teacher.

Ask him anything about Captain Scott O’Grady or the missile that shot him down and he will tell you everything you want to know and more, with a big smile on his face!

Cris as Captain Scott O'Grady

Cris as Captain Scott O'Grady

Captain Scott O'Grady

Captain Scott O'Grady

I haven’t written here since just before we moved. I am certain that all who are reading this have experienced moving in some form, or to some degree. For us, this move is the second in one year’s time and the 4th in 5 years. We are kind of pros and we’re also tired.

This particular move was somewhat difficult. We couldn’t do the typical gathering of boxes, packing weeks ahead, stacking the boxes in preparation and then loading and moving on one big day. We were dealing with many little brown creatures, most call them roaches, and they love to nest in boxes and books and, well, pretty much everything. I’m not talking about a few roaches. I’m talking hundreds. We had to clean through each and every item while packing, pack a box and immediately take it outside. So much of the packing and moving happened on the fly. It’s extremely exhausting. The good news… we are in a much better, much nicer place, in a safer neighborhood. It’s a true blessing and it’s a relief to be able to close my eyes at night and not worry that someone is going to come bursting through the door in the middle of the night, or that gunfire will be going off outside my window.

So now the nesting begins. I’ve been unpacking, moving stuff around, standing in rooms and looking, imagining, thinking. It’s not going quite as quickly as I would like. Life has a way of interrupting the process. I have experienced two migraines and was down for two days with a vicious stomach virus (truly vicious!).  My weekends are pretty much dedicated to working and family and resting. So I’ve had little nesting time. But really? What’s the rush? It’s a process that I will savor and enjoy and I will just take one day at a time and deal with each life “item” as it comes. One thing at a time, one day at a time.

There are gestures, and then there are gestures. What they mean can just be a matter of perspective. Where am I going with this?

I had a call from the Assistant Principal at the elementary school today. Carter, my first grader, was sitting in his office. Mr. Grant explained to me that he had been sent there for flipping the bird at another boy in the class. Right. Your probably as stunned as I was. My first thought was, “Whaaa?!” and then in my head are running thoughts while listening to Mr. Grant explain. I’m thinking, “How does he know when to flip someone off? Where did he learn how to shoot a bird? I hope they don’t think that’s something we do at home.”

As Mr. Grant, and later Carter’s teacher, explained it, Carter was sitting with the assistant teacher at his desk. He looked up and saw his friend and flipped him a bird. Eh, no big deal.  Mr. Grant asked Carter if he was mad at the boy. Carter was confused and said no.  Mr. Grant asked if the boy did something to him or if he hurt him and again, Carter said no. Carter told the teacher, Mr. Grant and myself that he saw someone on the bus do it. I’m certain he has seen it from the older kids in our neighborhood, perhaps on the bus, perhaps somewhere else. Who knows. What he did not know was that it was bad. Mr. Grant explained to Carter that using that gesture means “You’re a jerk!” or “I don’t like you!”  We determined that Carter using that gesture was supposed to mean “Hey dude, high five” or “What’s up budddy?”

Carter was bewildered and pretty scared. He was definitely remorseful and I, of course, had a firm talk with him. He wrote a letter apologizing to Ms. Lilley and also apologized to the boy. All is well.

So, in the end, the meaning is all a matter of perspective. Perhaps, we all need to think more like a six year old.

Yesterday, I had the opportunity to tour our local NBC tv station with the Tiger scouts of Cary Pack 218. It was a tour that I set up for my son’s den  in order to meet one of the Tiger badge requirements.

Wow! It was so much fun! We met Melanie Sanders (the news anchor), Wes Hohenstein (the weatherman), Penn Holderness (sports), and Nanette (the boss). We got to see the control room first and then the main part of the station where the news is done. The desk is much smaller than you think. Wes the weatherman talked to us about his job, showed us his 8+ computers that allow him to put together his forecast and let all the boys have fun with the green screen. One of the boys had purposely worn a green long sleeved shirt. When he stood in front of the green screen, he looked like a floating head on the tv screen.

Next Melanie Sanders took us around the newsroom where stories are being researched and put together. We saw the editing rooms and the boys got to hang out with Penn Holderness who was thrilled to be talking with the boys about sports. He was really good with them and the boys ate it up! Turns out, Penn is an Eagle Scout and encouraged our (7) six year olds to stay in scouting.

We met one of the camera guys and the boys got to “hold” one of the cameras. One of the scouts asked, “Can you let go?” wanting to hold the camera by himself. The cameraman…”umm, NO”   Haha. Melanie then took us to Nanette’s office (I can’t remember her last name). She’s the boss and everyone answers to her. It was really funny when the boys walked into her office.  As you can imagine with six year olds, they had been energetic and talkative the whole tour. Walking into her office, they were quiet like they were going to see the principal! One of the boys noticed she had Emmy awards and asked about them. She let the boys hold them.

That pretty much concluded our tour. One of the last people we met gave the boys each a car magnet that said MyNC. Apex on them. They were thrilled!

I grew up as a girl scout and loved the experiences I had. Now that I have boys, I get to experience “being” a cubscout and love the experiences that I get to share with my boys. We have been to Ft. Bragg, had a helicopter land in front of our meeting place and go onboard, toured and slept on the USS Yorktown, toured a firestation, had a visit from a Secret Service agent, toured a radio station and now have toured a tv station. It’s cool to be a cubscout! Check out some photos of our experience.

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Carter gets his turn in front of the green screen, Wes explains how it works.

wes the weatherman talking to the boys about his job

wes the weatherman talking to the boys about his job

Melanie Sanders shows us the newsroom

Melanie Sanders shows us the newsroom

Penn Holderness talking sports with the boys

Penn Holderness talking sports with the boys

the cameraman helps them hold the camera...Yikes!

the cameraman helps them hold the camera...Yikes!

Nanette the boss, shows her Emmys

Nanette the boss, shows her Emmys

The boys in the lobby

The boys in the lobby

Yesterday, I had a nice little adventure. Not a big deal type adventure, I was just going to the bank and decided to do so first thing in the morning.

I got myself  bundled for the weather, walked the boys to school, and proceeded to walk to Maynard Rd and catch the Maynard Loop bus. I’m not as familiar with this particular bus route since I have only ridden it once and it has more buses than the North/South route.

I stood at the bus stop and waited, not really sure when the bus would get there but sure that it would be relatively soon since they run on an every half hour schedule in the morning. It showed up almost exactly half an hour after I started waiting. Clearly I had just missed the earlier bus. Oh well, I’m not on any real schedule. Really the only thing I have to beat is the rain that was predicted to fall that day.

So I am riding with two other people that are heading to the mall. I’m not exactly sure of which stop I need to get off at, but I know that I don’t want to get out at the mall. I was looking for a shorter walk and I know there’s a closer stop than the mall stop. After talking to the driver, I learned that he still had to make the Crossroads loop before getting to the bus stop just on the other side of the mall. “Oh well”  I thought. “This will give me a chance to see exactly where the bus goes and how I might use it to get to the Olive Garden” (my work place). What I found? That bus route is far more extensive than I thought and covers so many great areas. You can get to just about anywhere! I can get to work, I could go to the movies and shopping, I can get to the Circuit City major-going-out-of-business sale, I could go to the fabric store or the spa located on Walnut. Not too shabby for a small bus route.

After my nice little ride, the bus driver let me out closer to the bank than the bus stop allowed, since I was the only rider. Another bonus for a small town route. One thing that caught my attention during my ride was a man walking along Walnut street heading toward the Crossroads area. The same guy had passed me at the bus stop back where I boarded. I looked at my watch and noticed that he had made pretty good time. I was impressed and inspired.

After my bank dealings I headed back out. I was not particularly interested in spending much time just standing and waiting for the bus. Given that this is not the transit system that screams big city, I had no idea when I would be picked up to return home. So I looked at my watch and started walking. Not too bad, although it was kind of chilly. I had thick socks on but still could feel a little chill through my crocs and my knees were starting to ache from the weather. I made it from Walnut St to Kildaire Farm Rd,  a 1.5 mile stretch, in just over 20 minutes. I felt good. I decided to reward myself with a milky way bar. After my brief shopping stint in Rite Aid, I headed back out to get home.

“Ut oh.” It started to rain. “This is not good.” I still had about a mile before I was home. My feet were cold, my knees ached and the last thing I needed was to get soaked walking in the cold icy rain. I didn’t have much choice but to trudge on and pray that heavier rain wait. As I walked, I had visions of my umbrella hanging in the small coat closet, all snug and warm.

Again, I made good time. I turned down the street and headed toward the school determining the shortest route. “What’s this? A coincidence?” I was crossing in front of the school office and heading toward me on the sidewalk was the mother of my oldest son’s best friend. She was with her young daughter. She doesn’t speak much English and tends to be shy. I don’t even know her name but have “spoken” with her numerous times, her oldest son interpreting.  I gathered she was asking if I was walking home and when I nodded she offered me a ride. “Gracias” I said.

On our short trip, I learned that she was at the school because her son was in trouble, that he would be taking some kind of test at the school and she wondered if Cris would be too. “No” I told her. Then she asked me how I liked the apartment. Her family lives in the same place. “Ug, no, no bueno.” I said and she smiled knowingly although she wasn’t sure how to say it, I could tell she hated it too. I told her we are moving soon and she seemed surprised and not so surprised at the same time. She indicated they were probably moving too. When we pulled into the parking lot, she looked at a couple of maintenance guys that happened to be in the lot and we agreed that they were lacking. It was an interesting conversation, that wasn’t really a conversation since neither of us speak the other language very well. It was a mom’s conversation.

And at that, my little adventure of walking around Cary was over. I was off to enjoy  my milky way bar.

Something pretty funny happened at work tonight and since I was having a pretty lousy night, it helped lighten my mood.

You may or may not know that I work at the Olive Garden as a server. Well, at the restaurant I go by my full name, Theresa. As you may expect, restaurants have rather high turn over rates particularly for hosts and hostesses. We have lots of fairly new hostesses, mostly teenagers and none of them know me as Terri.

My youngest brother is stationed at Ft. Bragg and often comes up when he has time off. Usually staying a day or two. This weekend he didn’t have much time off but wanted to say hey before heading back to Ft. Bragg. I was at work, so he stopped by the Olive Garden and the hostess approached him.

Hostess: “Hi, welcome to the Olive Garden, how many in your party?”

Kevin: “I’m just here to see Terri. Where is she working tonight?”

Hostess: “Umm, we don’t have a Terri working here”

Kevin: “Yes, she’s my sister. She’s a server at the Olive Garden.”

Manager: “Maybe you’re thinking Red Lobster?”

Kevin: “No, it’s the Olive Garden”

Manager: “Maybe it’s the Capital Blvd Olive Garden.”

Kevin: “Hmm, maybe. I’m pretty sure it was here.”

My brother proceeded to go back outside and call my husband who chuckled when Kevin asked if I still worked there. Jim asked him who he asked for and informed him that I go by Theresa at the restaurant. “Ooohh”

Kevin to Hostess: “I’m looking for Theresa”

Hostess: “OH! She’s in the cafe tonight”

Hostess to other Host who has known me for 3 yrs: ” I just don’t understand how her own brother doesn’t know her name!”  (I kid you not)

Host who has known me: “Terri is short for Theresa. Her family and friends call her Terri. She just goes by Theresa at the restaurant”

Hostess: (stunned look of surprise and many seconds pass as she lets this sink in before replying)  “Ooooohhh.”

The youth scares me sometimes. This time it made me laugh so hard I almost peed in my pants!

I grew up in Florida. As you may imagine, I spent many winters strolling on the beach, hunting for the best sea shells or just playing outside with my friends. Snow was not a part of my vocabulary nor was any of the paraphernalia that comes with it.

In 1986, upon graduating from college (Go Gators!), I moved to Boston to start my life. As winter approached I kept putting off buying snow boots. Then I went with a group of friends to a cabin in New Hampshire in early winter, pretty much guaranteeing that I needed boots. To prepare, I went to a small camping store near Charlestown and purchased a pair of very sturdy Timberland boots. They were awesome in the snow and I went on to wear those boots for the next 21 years. Most of my snow days were spent in Colorado where those boots proved very handy. Can you believe they lasted that long?! Truly a great bargain, as I remember only spending a mere $15 on them. Timberlands go for way more than that now, and the selection is far more varied.

About a month ago I was cleaning out my closet. I actually struggled with the decision to get rid of my Timberlands. They had served me well for so long. But the interior of the boot had finally deteriorated enough to make them a little uncomfortable. Besides, I live in North Carolina and it really doesn’t snow enough here to warrant my needing these boot or any others for that matter. The last time my Timberlands had seen a good snow storm was nearly 6 years ago when we lived in Colorado. So off to Goodwill they went.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009 we got about 6 inches of snow….here….in Cary, North Carolina. My shoes to choose from consisted of Birkenstocks, Crocs, an old pair of sneakers, pumps, flip flops and a pair of mule slip ons. I guess I really needed those Timberlands after all.

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So, after nearly a year of thinking about starting an online blog, here I am. Why did it take so long  for something so simple? Honestly, I’m not much for the computer. You could say I almost hate it. Oh, I know, I know…I use it for everything. Paying bills, emailing and staying connected to friends and family, checking news stories and weather. But when it comes to journaling and drawing, I guess I’m just more of a romantic. I prefer paper, pen and pencil. But, alas, I have succumbed to technology. I will assimilate.

And so here we go…

on this journey together.

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